A great article by Tanuka Gupta on taking responsibility for what is arising in experience rather than blaming and bypassing, both of which perpetuate suffering.
A related quote from Kavitha:
“The mind is the friend. Or the enemy. It all depends on whether we place blame or take responsibility. When we place blame, we create more karma. When we take responsibility, we lighten the imprint load.
“With blame, we try to change the world – an impossible task. With responsibility, we change ourselves – a very doable thing.”
– Kavitha Chinnaiyan, recent newsletter